You only have one chance to make a first impression!
We encourage you to take the time and make the effort to deliver the first impression that works best for you.
Put your best foot forward = to act or appear your best; to try to make a good impression
To Act and Appear Your Best Online
The first goal of your online profile and pictures is to catch the attention of dates who are good matches for you. After you catch their attention, your online presence needs to create sufficient interest in you to make dating likely.
Rule # 1 – Appeal to universal desires
Unless you are one of those rare people looking for something “peculiar” in a relationship (shades of whatever), count on the fact that most people are looking for the same normal things in a relationship. Not many daters are looking to avoid people who are “nice” and “interesting” and “happy” and “healthy” and “honest” and….
Rule # 2 – Avoid unnecessary turn-offs
Sometimes trivial things detract from your image. Skip displaying information that is irrelevant to you. For example, including your astrological sign may give someone the impression that you are an astrology true believer. That may be an unnecessary turn-off to some people. There is a tendency to believe that the more you put in your profile, the more likely you will attract a date. Not true. Show what is important to you.
Rule # 3 – Keep the “your” in your best
If you are creating an attractive image that is not you, that is not likely to benefit you in the long run. On the other hand, get past the generic descriptors when describing yourself. Maybe sit down with a friend and “brainstorm” what makes you special. Sometimes others see us more clearly than we do.
Rule # 4 – Don’t try to hide the obvious
Research has proven that being open about your obvious characteristics you may believe are “negatives” works much better than trying to hide them. For example, if you think you are too short to be attractive, it’s better to show you are comfortable with your height than to initially appear to be hiding your height. People are attracted to confidence. Don’t make your insecurities (we all have them) the focus of their attention. If your profile seems to say “Yes, I’m 5′ X”. I’m good with it.” you defuse the issue. More often than not, what you think is your big “negative” is not nearly as big a deal to potential dates.